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June 19, 2012, - 1:23 pm

VIDEO: Girlie Man USA – “Men” Who Check Their Testicles @ the Door Are Becoming the Norm

By Debbie Schlusse

Meet the most whipped men in America, who are sadly becoming a larger and larger portion of all men in America.

This video ran on last night’s ABC News “Nightline,” and it’s, sadly, becoming the norm as feminists have won and more and more of America’s “men” are Mr. Moms like this. They’re now calling these eunuchs “trophy husbands,” but what kind of male trophy has no penis or testicles? It’s pathetic. This guy joins the peckerless class in which Todd Palin and Jesse (wife of Michelle) Malkin are proud members without members. As I always remind you, great nations are led by men. Matriarchies never last. Even when Golda Meir ran Israel, it was the men who were the generals and ran its wars and Mossad operations. And she was done raising her kids. Her husband wasn’t Mr. Mom. As the report says, the U.S. Census shows that stay-at-home dads in America have more than doubled in the last ten years. And the Pew Research Center said that women now place more importance on having a career than men. Not a good thing. America is now official Girlie Man Nation. Pathetic. I could never be with one of these men. Just couldn’t. They are the women in their marriage. They are powerless. The wife is the breadwinner and holds all the power and purse strings. It’s got to be the most emasculating situation a man can be in, whether he admits it or not. Apparently these guys don’t understand that a dominatrix fetish is a fantasy not meant to be lived out in life every moment of every day. You can bet there ain’t no “trophy husbands” in Al-Qaeda, Hezbollah, HAMAS, Islamic Jihad, Muslim Brotherhood, etc. Dude, what does it feel like to be the guy who both buys the tampons AND does all the housework? Never mind. I don’t wanna know. Well, we definitely know who’s on top. Here’s a tip: when two men are discussing how cute a little girl’s skirt is, there’s a testosterone drought. The husband in a family has a job: to be a dad, NOT to be Mom. Gloria Steinem’s and Betty Freidan’s dream is now real, and in the long term it’s a nightmare for America.

Watch and weep …

American Men . . . the New Women.

Tags: feminization of America, feminization of American men, girlieman nation, Girlieman USA, men--the new women, Mr. Mom, mr. moms, no testicles, trophy husband, trophy husbands, video

42 Responses

As more males are pushed out of the workforce, especially blue collar whites(legal and illegal immigration), we will only see more of this. Men also face a minefield in modern workplaces, since even a rumor or a woman’s dislike for some guy is liable to generate a sexual harasssment complaint. It is power without responsibility or restraint which is always the most dangerous. There are usually no consequences for a “victimized” female if the complaint is either deemed to be unmerited or trivial. Even if the male manages to survive an unmerited complaint, he is marked and living on borrowed time. He has just established a pattern of “harassment”. The man is just a lame duck awaiting the final shotgun blast, whether he knows it or not.

Worry01 on June 19, 2012 at 1:36 pm

“The wife is the breadwinner and holds all the power and purse strings.”

Yes, because that’s what marriage is all about…power. Yeesh.

R: Every single relationship involves a balance of power, with one party more powerful in the relationship than the other. Anyone who denies that is delusional. Your thinking is the same kind that insists that the entire class be the valedictorian. Not the way the real world works. Sorry. DS

Robert on June 19, 2012 at 1:38 pm

Right on DS! Just like we better not grade the papers with red ink! Or everyone gets a trophy! Just more wussification of America’s kids & men!

Hollywood on June 19, 2012 at 2:35 pm

This is why I won’t ever date or marry an American twit who is all about herself and her career.

Habib Akbarovich on June 19, 2012 at 2:19 pm

I couldn’t watch the whole video. When I saw the fingers flailing when the female reporter talked and then the fingers flailing when the “daddy” talks, there was no difference. Are we sure these “trophy husbands” are the real sperm donors for these kids?

I don’t know how those neutered-girly-men-pusses live with themselves. Aside from hanging with other housewives, they must be very lonely. They have nothing in common with men whatsoever.

PDMac60 on June 19, 2012 at 2:37 pm

You can thank sexual quotas and the demonization of men. Educated women with the same years of experience make more money than their male counterparts. Any white male that fights for this country is a sucker. America hates white males now.

Jonathan grant on June 19, 2012 at 2:41 pm

Jon,

Feminism has turned men into women with the “Y” chromosome. Its not equality they really want in life.

American society doesn’t need men or fathers. Then again, our politicians increasingly pander to women voters.

Where are the men in the conversation? There isn’t one. The Dead White American Male is an endangered species.

NormanF on June 19, 2012 at 7:35 pm

This is one of the major problems with the Un-United States of America. You have numerous forces that are tearing the very fabric of American Society. This castrating of the American man, usually of European ancestry, is sickening. You see these types, usually communists with those stupid strollers, running around Berkeley and surrounding areas proudly displaying their “co-exist, free Palestine and no war for oil” horseshit bumper stickers.

Biologically speaking, a man that puts himself in that position, as seen in the video, and the woman is off working, eventually, the woman will seek a man to fulfill her biological needs. She is a lawyer and likely around cops. In all probability someone in law enforcement or a construction worker that is an illegal, soon to be legal, will be banging this chick in no time and proud dumb-ass dad that is staying at home will never know it. Of course, when she will get knocked-up and bring one more anchor baby into the equation of the millions that we already have.

Did anyone realize that these anchor babies had sub-anchor babies witch doubles the figures by estimates given?

I guess he thinks that wearing an ear ring compensates for his excessive amount of estrogen. Would this dump truck know what to do if someone tried to break into his house? He would probably hide behind his woman’s skirt and refer to his social media account or or find an APP for directions and then seek counseling to understand his inner-womanhood, only to be told by his therapist that that the burglar is a victim of the evil and racist white man and that he should atone by abandoning his American Heritage and adopting culturally, religiously & linguistically another culture that is usually Hispanic, Middle Eastern or African-American.

Clearly, in these cases, the woman wears the pants. Do these women actually prefer a man with a mangina? All of these dorks are weak and belong at home.

One thing you do not see amongst the illegals and individuals that migrate to our country by the tens of millions is this he man and stay at home B.S. You take a man’s will to fight and you have effectively conquered his country.

T on June 19, 2012 at 2:42 pm

Alright Debbie, there’s an obvious elephant in the room that I’ve been meaning to ask you for some time now. Are you employed by the Disney corporation in any capacity? The frequency with which you use video clips from Nightline and Jimmy Kimmel’s programs (and very few others) to make your points has been sticking out like a sore thumb for quite awhile now.

I: Nope, but if they decide to start paying me, I’ll gladly cash the check! DS

Irving on June 19, 2012 at 2:49 pm

I saw the funniest thing a couple of weeks ago. A guy, with a toddler in one arm and a diaper bag in the other arm, was walking with his wife, who was only carrying her purse. They were about to walk into a store when the wife said she forgot her cell phone in the car. She handed her purse to the guy and walked back to the car to retrieve her phone. This was more than I could handle, I was almost laughing out loud. So I walked up to the guy and said, “Your man card has been revoked” and I just kept walking by as I could barely contain my laughter.

Jarhead on June 19, 2012 at 2:56 pm

Right On, DS! Emasculated men are NOT sexy or desirable. Feminists have given men free sex without paying a whore BUT also a disgusting paradigm of taking a vital part away from men that is central to their feeling complete. Masculinity and heading a household. The men are more pathetic than the nasty females because they are letting the angry bitches dominate them.

In America the sex is easy (if you’re dating) but men marry these shrews and then are imposed with an intimacy drought…with the females “issues” ruling the day. If you’re not healthy enough to get married you shouldn’t.

Even when I was a feminist I liked manly men. I love my gay friends but I only have sympathy if they are wimpy and cry a lot. A straight male should NEVER be that wimpy. It’s unappealing and gross (I am not talking about regular human emotions…only if the male is a bloody girly wimp!!!).

C’mon men. Fight for your proper space back. Good women want a real good guy who is nice and tough. Don’t let the mentally ill feminazis win!

Skunky on June 19, 2012 at 3:59 pm

And what’s with the hyphenated last names? Isn’t one surname enough???

Alan on June 19, 2012 at 4:21 pm

It does point up the superfluous nature of men. Women who insist on keeping their maiden name after marriage are essentially saying the man they married, they are not part of his family.

And you wonder why the divorce rate is so high! Go figure.

NormanF on June 19, 2012 at 7:40 pm

I disagree with Todd Palin being a Mr. Mom. The guy worked several jobs and still runs a commercial fishing business.

Glen Benjamin on June 19, 2012 at 4:27 pm

There is nothing wrong with a man helping to take care of the kids. Raising them all by himself as a substitute mom, no. Kids need a real father and a real mother, period. A woman who thinks she can have a career and slough off her parental responsibilities on the man is doing her kids a disservice. There’s a very big difference between the two roles.

The movie “Mr. Mom” may be entertaining fiction but its not real life and every one knows it.

NormanF on June 19, 2012 at 7:45 pm

I was waiting on Skunky to chime in. She never disappoints…

PDMac60 on June 19, 2012 at 4:28 pm

Thank you PDMac! I have to tell the truth of what I learned and I see no sense in applauding dopey females who think treating men horribly is something to celebrate and proliferate!

Skunky on June 19, 2012 at 5:34 pm

If feminists weren’t so horny, I might date one…

Patrick on June 19, 2012 at 6:21 pm

Debbie, while these males (not men) are unappealing, it’s hard to say that this is becoming “norm” unless this is a lot more common than the attached video demonstrates. If by “norm” you mean “that which is desired,” I’d say that this situation has been “desired” by the same phonies, freaks, and man-haters for decades now.

I don’t worry about “matriarchy,” as there is no evidence that it has ever occurred. I can’t imagine that it ever will, as IQ is clearly the great adaptive evolutionary weapon, and while male and female IQs have the same mean, there is much more dispersion among males. This means that there will always be more really dumb men than women, but also more really smart men than women. So, the elite stratum will always be mostly men and the wimmin these high-status men select. Such wymon will not be pandered to by these high-status men.

What bothers me is not matriarchy per se but is the ugliness of a society in which men are treated so disrespectfully. While I expect men will always most leadership roles, it doesn’t follow that the societies they lead will amount to much. I think THAT is where we’ll see the main problem.

skzion on June 19, 2012 at 7:00 pm

Can somebody say “panty waste?”

Karen on June 19, 2012 at 7:09 pm

A lot of modern men, unfortunately, DO want to live a 24/7 dominant female fantasy. And yes, there are women who gladly indulge them, knowing their domestic power will go all the more unchallenged, with or without kids. Check out websites like sissify.com and peeticoated.com if you don’t believe me. A great many men in such situations think they are LUCKY. Yeah, in their wet dreams.

Such relationships, it is true, always have been around. But until recently, they were outliers, deviations from the norm. Today they are becoming the norm. I dread to think what we will look like as a nation in, say, 2040, especially as females today account for close to 60 percent of all bachelor’s degrees.

Seek on June 19, 2012 at 7:26 pm

With fewer men in the future, I wouldn’t be surprised if multiple marriages became the norm again. But its not going to be a world like the Turkish seraglio.

We’ll be lucky to survive if that happens.

NormanF on June 19, 2012 at 7:48 pm

Seek,
This may damage what else I have to say, but – I LIKE those sites.
you must admit, there is a LOT of freedom (of one sort) in HANDING OVER CONTROL to another person.

I’m not a submissive, though; I can’t give up all control. Even most women won’t do that, even in their God-given roles as feminine women. (There have always been domineering women and harpies, too. There is no social control any more, though – though there IS social approval: YOU GO GRRL! To which I say, “And don’t come back.”) The reason I’m not so afraid of the loss of “Control” is that I’m transgendered, so I sort of “get” both sides. I can see a man being an asshole causing problems… But raised as a “nice guy”, on all sorts of romantic Hollywood clap-trap – Well, it didn’t help any. But every relationship needs a leader, I’m not afraid of being the follower – God help anyone who tries to dominate me. I like the cuddling, I like the intimacy; I also like bodybuilding, fighting, sci-fi movies, ancient weapons, cooking, painting, and video games. There’s a small subset (of the exceedingly small population who are T-anything) who get more F*cked as they work at meeting the “gender” requirements. Meaning, certain genetic males get MORE uncomfortable being male as their testosterone increases. So, correct lifting of weights = less comfortable mental situation. Usually the desire is to BE and HAVE a female, too – so think lesbian -> likes cuddling, likes intimacy, not big on domination (using stereotypes amkes it easy, there’s variation of course.)

HOWEVER: BEING WHAT I AM, I _STILL_ believe that while T* is “natural” (like handedness), MEN should be MEN, WOMEN should be WOMEN. But women today don’t WANT to be women, They want to be MEN…
Let’s see, take a thing of great beauty and incredible complexity, break it in a few fundamental ways to make it incompatible with its “other half”, and then FORCE the other half to “deal with” the damages….

Anyone surprised we’ve got masculine women and feminine men? I’m like, 0.01% of less than 2% of a given population. Given a LITTLE tolerance, or a complement, I’d probably vanish into the woodwork AND be happy, and LOSE the problem entirely – by making MY WOMAN happy, asserting HER femininity, and complementing it with my Masculinity (which I think is established with my interests… Doubt many men know how to use a broadsword worth a d@mn, AND can overhead press their weight, AND know how to cook – but plenty of parallels, too, as architects, mechanics, Army/Air Force / Marines/Navy, firefighters, police, etc, etc, etc.)
Instead, I need to be “supportive” when the (forgive the term) she-male wants to ROAR, and then I need to use my brains to put the pieces back together while she goes and sulcks because it didn’t work out the way she wanted, and now the universe owes her.

My woman cannot lead, and refuses to follow. Thank GOD I’m not married to the shrew and should be able to shake her off soon. It’s been 6 years and a bankruptcy and foreclosure, and MY needs and wants DISCARDED while SHE acts like a Princess. (and demands to be king.)
(And she combines all the worst FEMALE attributes with the worst MALE attributes: Domineering, gives orders, doesn’t care about the details, just wants it done – yesterday! Then sulks if it isn’t done the way she wanted, and shames and blames. Her idea of foreplay amounts to sexual assault. I have my problems, SURE – but this one takes the cake! And after she’s done emasculating me all day, she (a) gushes about what she did with her boss, how awesome everything at work was, and (b) effecgively assaults me, grabbing at my little friend and demanding sex with aggressive lust that would make a 42nd street whore blush. And get a man thrown in jail, even in a marriage. Sorry to be so graphic, but it is somewhat necessary, given how effeminate I can sound otherwise; ladies, you can turn us on, or turn us off – permanently. And if you’re ugly on the outside, we can get past that – if you’re ugly on the inside, we’ll hate your guts. I think any other man on here will back me up, a woman ripping your clothes off, ramming her tongue down your throat, and grabbing your little friend with enough force to juice an orange is NOT a turnon. She’s not even forward, she’s AGGRESSIVE about it. But I’ll shut up now.)

Jean on December 18, 2012 at 5:23 pm

Just a side note: has anyone else realized we haven’t had a President with a son in the WH in 20 years. I wonder if there is a correlation between “girly men” and not having a son in the WH.

Mike on June 19, 2012 at 7:48 pm

Mike, excellent observation! Every President in the last twenty years has had daughters.

Its says something about a society that doesn’t value males – especially male children.

That’s stuff Debbie might write up on in the future.

NormanF on June 19, 2012 at 7:52 pm

Norman and Mike, when my daughter was conceived 43 years ago, I read that more males are conceived but more females make it thru the whole 9 mos. Why do you think this is and what do you think is wrong with polygamy? The first is easy. One man can impregnate hundreds of women in the course of a year. The second answer is: Nothing! Monogamy is a Christian concept and even Jews in some places still practice it, quietly, because it’s not legal according to the secular states they live in and that includes Israel but we know that many Ethiopians have multiple wives and even some Yemenites who are recent arrivals have kept their multiples. We even have some “Western” Jews doing it as “common law” marriages after the first so that some widows and divorcees have the protection of a husband. Not, it won’t be a Turkish Seraglio as Norman says. It follows the Muslim model of a maximum of 4 and only if they can be kept equally. The Muzzies probably got that from us but I don’t know where to find it.

Italkit on June 20, 2012 at 2:43 am

I took my kids to the beach recently. Virtually every male there was perfectly waxed and shaved. When I took off my shirt, the girly-boys were in shock. I have a hairy chest, hairy back and shoulders. My wife says it looks like I have a built-on sweater. Anyway, an absolutely gorgeous ‘Hawaii Tropic bikini model type’ (probably half my age) walked over to me and said it is nice to see a real man be a man. My Testosterone must have gone into hyper-production on the spot. I was a spontaneous mass of erectile tissue, and now I can’t help but feel that masculinity may be making a resurgence. Now all the pussies I just ignore!

Tasso on June 19, 2012 at 11:48 pm

I’m sorry. I watched this and all I could think is that these cwaizy, spoiled women are getting what they want. A stay at home girlfriend and maid with a penis. And another thing: they said the mother gets thirty minutes with her daughter before she is put to bed. She is not investing any time with her child. Why did she have a child in the first place if she was not going to be “there” for the child? (Oh, and I was being nice by calling them cwaizy. I almost put something else but didn’t want my comment deleted.)

Kristy on June 20, 2012 at 5:33 am

Where to begin? I married a hard-working, country hick farm boy who graduated second in his class and went on to graduate university (with High Honors) with a practical degree. He has worked in the medical sector for a few decades.

My loving husband (amazing dad and ball coach to our three grown kids)–hunting (Cabela’s catalog in the bathroom,) fishing, one whole walk-in closet devoted to camping, fishing, and hunting gear, carpentry work shop (the “man cave,”) tools of EVERY kind, engines, scrap metal in one barn he built, gardening (EVERY tool of EVERY kind,) softball (EVERY piece of equipment of EVERY kind,) former military officer–would go freakin’ nuts, if he had to stay at home like this…and wear clothes from the Mall! I’ll bet those “men” don’t smell like men, either.

Besides, he isn’t allowed to go anywhere near MY washer or dryer (he lacks the laundry gene–which we diagnosed 28 years ago when he ruined three of my good sweaters.) Fellas, hotter isn’t always faster or better. But he is allowed to fix them and maintain them in good working order.

There’s our balance of power.

He earns it, I spend it (a la Dave Ramsey–back when we called that “what your parents and grandparents taught you about being wise with your money.”) We never got into debt, and we sleep peacefully at night, and don’t fight about money or who has “the power.”

Without his great salary and benefits, we could never have built our strong, healthy family, or helped so many others. And without my wise and responsible money management–and our accountability to one another–we wouldn’t live in peace and have everything we need.

Although I work part-time and volunteer for our children’s schools (we are almost empty nesters,) I gave up a career after graduating university, so I could stay at home and raise our family (three WONDERFUL kids–one just joined the military.)

He’s set to retire in a few years and work part-time. I’m currently looking for something full-time. Our goal is to travel a lot (to see our kids, who are spread out around the country) and play a lot. Our biggest worry is deciding where to eat out.

And I always let him think it was his choice we decide on : )

Aurora on June 20, 2012 at 9:57 am

Not a mystery to anyone who did the simplest study of Communist Goals for America; the Marxist/Socialist Plan for America.

In order to get rid of us as the nation of ball busting righteous he-men America is, they had to overturn everything that is the norm for an American man or woman. Black would become white. Right, wrong, Up, down and LEFT would become right.

As a man who raises the highest quality beef in limited herd numbers to ensure quality, beef is emblematic to me of his pogrom.

Beef is the perfect food for real men. Boosts testosterone. Chock full of easily digestible proteins. But more than anything your best source of easily assimilated B-vitamins. In particular food grade B12 and B6 actually fight what the medical establishment calls “heart disease” by counteracting homocysteines. We aren’t sure how homocysteine increases the risk of heart and blood vessel disease but there is a link between high homocysteine levels and damage to the arteries, causing atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries) and the formation of blood clots.

The medical establishment claims eating meat raises homocysteine levels, but the red meat of quality beef elevates B6 and B12 levels in a manner the body prefers instead of vitamin uptake.

Plus, quality beef supports and enhances levels of testosterone. And we all know testosterone is the #1 enemy of the the Man Hating Left, especially “feminists”.

Weak men without will or balls is just what they want.

So, eat more beef.

Jack on June 20, 2012 at 10:57 am

Jack,
Close, but only a cigarette (no cigar. 😉 )

Boring part first: The Communist Party platform is represented by BOTH major political parties in this country, though a bit more endorsed by the Democrats. but BOTH parties. Public education was a big deal, wonder why?

Fun part – and the detail you missed:
Red meat is good for various reasons; I was unaware of the oens you cited.
However, red meat has cholesterol – the BUILDING BLOCK of Testosterone! Eat red meat! 🙂 (For a real kick in the @$$, eat steak and eggs for breakfast, and lift hard and heavy, and sprint – watch the fat roll off, and the strength go up! And she’ll LOVE your curves: Deltoid, Triceps, Biceps, Brachiallus, Quadriceps, Gluteals, Latissimus, even your Serratus will show! It’s AWESOME. Just don’t F*ck up a knee, that SUCKS. Lifts, BTW – Dead lift, overhead press, squats – best for HGH, working quadriceps in the legs – cleans, bench press – then play with whatever else you feel like.)

Mark’s Daily apple; look up “paleo diet”, and of course Rippentoe and/or “Stronglifts”. Be careful BTW – I overdid with Stronglifts, I could go WAY too high at first, and tried to keep adding… Messed me up a little. Nice, good development, though. (Manly development for those who read my other comments; being “strong like a girl” means you’re a p*ssy, to be blunt about it, unless you’re talking about a female Olympic powerlifter.)
Even worse, I tripped on the stairs and now need to find a orthopedic surgeon… Can’t even WALK right, sitting is painful, and I can’t workout…. To say I’m a bundle of energy is an understatement. Low-end workouts won’t cut it after Stronglifts… I want to go back to my 200# overhead press, dammit! 😀 (Worse yet, squats were my weak spot – long spine, short legs – so my legs are atrophying and they were weak to begin with! ARGH.)

Jean on December 18, 2012 at 5:52 pm

I loved this! I live in a blue state but I’m married to a soldier who is currently in Afghanistan & I agree!

Susi on June 20, 2012 at 11:18 am

Hilarious… but I just love the ear ring!

GC on June 20, 2012 at 1:49 pm

It is sadenning mam. I blame the greed that gripped America in a horrible way. Seld centricity is now a status symbol and concern for the general good is now a n illegal alien. The economic pressures are putting men on the street. men do not have jobs do not consider marriage because they have nothing to offer. women think that a husband is better than no husband and going to the bars every night for a pickup. They engage the men knowing that they ahve no means. They get pregnant and have kids but thank God hubby is home. This is the going logic mam.

G. R. Scharoubim on June 20, 2012 at 2:19 pm

today’s man is becoming increasingly neutered.

Dave on June 20, 2012 at 11:43 pm

“You can bet there ain’t no “trophy husbands” in Al-Qaeda, Hezbollah, HAMAS, Islamic Jihad, Muslim Brotherhood, etc.”

I wouldn´t be so sure. I would even state that the oil sheiks may well be making new harems out of those girlie men.

Jaws on June 21, 2012 at 10:24 am

fuck judes!!!!

john on June 22, 2012 at 1:18 pm

And…At DHS/HSI (formerly known as ICE)in a certain office, the Kotex mafia reigned supreme for a while, broaddly emasulating, and rewarding the Effeminists (those that were emasdculated by choice)by promoting them but they still were not as connected as the made members of the KM. The results were that the whole office was a ridiculous joke and local laughing stock; plus the Effeminists tried to compensate by acting the tough-guy role and making work life hostile for those real men that were in the office. Now, the girly men may be getting ready to come out as the new trend is for Pride! So one can say that HSI reflects the cultural trend in the U.S. of the “Girly-man”, man-boobs and all!

QTD on June 22, 2012 at 1:22 pm

I’m just gona say I think that Tea Party at 11am, was a afternoon delight, so cute with their matching pale sweaters, drain of all bravado… Come on Im not only here am I, he is clearly gay, and seeing his fellow playdate choice…You make the tea, I’ll bring the Lube.

CrazyPeas on June 25, 2012 at 5:23 am

I responded to someone above, but I need to repeat a little here for my own comment.

Men are becoming very effeminate in this country, yes. Women are becoming very masculinized. It destroys social cohesion, stunting both man and woman.
Bruce Lee had a great evaluation of marriage – said, It’s not “1+1=2” as most people think, but “A half plus a half equals a whole.”
I’ve spent a LOT of time in the last 6 years (time with current GF) trying to explain to her that there has to be parity, division of labor; can’t be one person “doing it all” as she so likes to claim. And that doesn’t mean one person cooks, and the other does the dishes! It can’t be that one person does the UPSTAIRS vacuuming, the other the DOWNSTAIRS, or even that you alternate.

Without a clear delineation of who is “in charge” or “final authority,” there IS NO FAMILY UNIT.
And you can’t DEMAND to be “the leader” and get anywhere – doesn’t work like that. The “leader” must take into consideration everyone’s wishes, get as much knowledge about the situation as possible, and then make a decision that EVERYONE has to follow. And if it turns out to be wrong, (s)he has to admit the mistake, correct course, and get things going again. Can’t sit and wail and blame the universe (publicly) – fix the problem, learn the lesson, move on. (then go somewhere quiet and scream a little, mostly at yourself for being wrong – assuming you actually WERE, visibly, WRONG. Mistakes or bad info happen, absorb those and move on. Self-pity isn’t the hallmark of good leaders.)

I don’t need to be “in charge.” I DO despise when someone else is screeching orders at me (grew up with that shit.) But if a woman has a good idea, you’re an idiot if you ignore it because it’s from a woman. Given most women ignore men, period… Mabye the bitchslap should be permitted?

Seriously, I went through bankruptcy because I realized too late what was going on. One version is that she told me everything; the alternative is, the “queen of manipulation” as she termed herself, told me “only what I needed to know” as she recently told me that’s how she manages me….
Which makes the OTHER version – that she took me for all she could screw me for – FAR more likely. Especially now she’s getting credit cards – for herself – again…

Even an abused woman gets to where she’ll take being (dying) alone over the abuse. A man? Even a TG? More resilience; more endurance; and just as crafty as a woman.

Guess who’s about to find how deep the rabbit hole goes, the hard way?

Jean on December 18, 2012 at 5:38 pm

OH, one thing to note:
For those who have never noticed this, do a google search on “ladyboy”. (you will get Porn, be warned.)
Do an image search, you’ll get tourist photos – some you’ll SWEAR are women. Same in Brazil, BTW. And SO FEMININE!!!

PATHETIC when a MALE can be more FEMININE IN BODY AND ACTION than a genetic woman. Shows how F*cked we really are. 🙁
And I send to foreign sites because they’re easier – US sites will be hardcore porn, but you’ll see the SAME thing – FEMININITY, in a MALE body. Travesty of God’s creation. Even to me.

Jean on December 18, 2012 at 5:55 pm

Michelle Malkin married Jesse because he takes his pegging like a man and has never asked for reciprocation … worst-kept secret in the media world 🙂

Jason on August 2, 2013 at 12:39 am

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